DON'T BE MAD

A lot of people are gonna be mad at this one, but I’m sick of the bullshit I see posted people wanna have their cake and eat it too and ughh you can’t

Men choose!

I know this is a lil religious, but bear with me on this one J

To end the confusion of gender and what is expected, I decided to do what I do best…write and give factual info of a perspective viewpoint.

Roles ?

When God made man he gave man the authority to name his creation. By God allowing man to do so was a demonstration of the power given to man. God created, man named. Whatever man named God said that it would be so. Man was in command. If you know anything about the bible, the bible says that “we can speak things into” existence” paraphrasing that of course! So if,  we put our minds to what we choose to do in this life it will be so especially if we say “We can do it”  that is why naming thins is so important. This is why when you give a child a name it should not only sound good, but give a child a destiny and direction.

Woman was made from the rib of man; God said that it was NOT GOOD FOR MAN TO BE ALONE. So, God gave Adam a woman and ADAM GAVE THE WOMAN THE NAME EVE. Eve was made for man to be a help meet. To help him accomplish the goals set before him in naming things and managing the lands that God had given…which was the garden of Eden.

The Fall

While Adam had the responsibility over the woman, he did not fully fulfil his duties and Eve went off on her own and was tempted by the devil in the form of a snake to eat forbidden fruit and in her sin offered it to Adam and humanity fell.

God punished the woman by giving her pain in child birth, and would be subject to the rule of man, taking her from the position of help meet, as equals to being of somewhat servant hood.

Man however, would be subject to have work and when he worked lil will be produced from his work. So, the concept of working hard for peanuts was yes this old, comes from the fall.

They were both ejected out of paradise!

Now that was Old Testament

Now let us talk New Testament!

After the fall

God was in the business to try to redeem humanity and restore humans to their proper authority that they had before the fall

This is where Jesus comes into play

When he died and rose again, God then restored man and woman to their proper places of authority. Man and woman considered and created equal, the only difference was gender roles were different.

So, this is where in modern times some men and women get confused!

MEN ARE UPSET WITH WOMEN BECAUSE women because they are too independent, not as submissive, and strive for their own goals and ambition. They want their cake and eat it too, they want a woman to go and provide like a man, but submit to their manly authority. They want to tell her what to take care of, how to spend her money, pay most of the bills, yet not have the rights and privileges associated with such responsibilities.

If you want a woman who is independent IS NOT WRONG FOR HER TO NOT BE SUBMISSIVE IF A MAN IS NOT DOING HIS JOB OF BEING A MAN. WHEN YOU BECOME A MAN, YOU CAN DEMAND RESPECT AS SUCH!

A woman is not under a man, subject to a man, underneath a man’s rule or authority. Not in God’s sight. If you are that man who provides and protects his family, and honor his woman than you deserve to be treated as such.

BUT!!!!!!

If you are not providing for her, you are not protector, if she has to work to take care of herself, and she has t pay all the bills, don’t get mad if she doesn’t want to cook dinner and clean the house, or pay your bills you have accumulated if she holds her own.

YOU CAN EITHER EVEN THE BALANCE HELP WITH PROVIDING, AND GET THE RESPECT DUE YOU AS A MAN. OR FALL BACK AND DON’T EXPECT THE RIGHTS AND PRIVILAGES AS A MAN FROM YOUR WOMAN ON TOP OF HER TAKING CARE OF YOU