A lot of
people are gonna be mad at this one, but I’m sick of the bullshit I see posted
people wanna have their cake and eat it too and ughh you can’t
Men choose!
I know this
is a lil religious, but bear with me on this one J
To end the
confusion of gender and what is expected, I decided to do what I do best…write
and give factual info of a perspective viewpoint.
Roles ?
When God made man he gave man the authority to name his
creation. By God allowing man to do so was a demonstration of the power given
to man. God created, man named. Whatever man named God said that it would be
so. Man was in command. If you know anything about the bible, the bible says
that “we can speak things into” existence” paraphrasing that of course! So if, we put our minds to what we choose to do in
this life it will be so especially if we say “We can do it” that is why naming thins is so important.
This is why when you give a child a name it should not only sound good, but
give a child a destiny and direction.
Woman was made from the rib of man; God said that it was NOT
GOOD FOR MAN TO BE ALONE. So, God gave Adam a woman and ADAM GAVE THE WOMAN THE
NAME EVE. Eve was made for man to be a help meet. To help him accomplish the
goals set before him in naming things and managing the lands that God had given…which
was the garden of Eden.
The Fall
While Adam had the responsibility
over the woman, he did not fully fulfil his duties and Eve went off on her own
and was tempted by the devil in the form of a snake to eat forbidden fruit and
in her sin offered it to Adam and humanity fell.
God punished the woman by giving
her pain in child birth, and would be subject to the rule of man, taking her
from the position of help meet, as equals to being of somewhat servant hood.
Man however, would be subject to
have work and when he worked lil will be produced from his work. So, the
concept of working hard for peanuts was yes this old, comes from the fall.
They were both ejected out of
paradise!
Now that was Old Testament
Now let us talk New Testament!
After the fall
God was in the business to try to redeem humanity and restore
humans to their proper authority that they had before the fall
This is where Jesus comes into play
When he died and rose again, God then restored man and woman
to their proper places of authority. Man and woman considered and created
equal, the only difference was gender roles were different.
So, this is where in modern times some men and women get confused!
MEN ARE UPSET WITH WOMEN BECAUSE women because they are too
independent, not as submissive, and strive for their own goals and ambition. They
want their cake and eat it too, they want a woman to go and provide like a man,
but submit to their manly authority. They want to tell her what to take care
of, how to spend her money, pay most of the bills, yet not have the rights and privileges
associated with such responsibilities.
If you want a woman who is independent IS NOT WRONG FOR HER TO NOT BE
SUBMISSIVE IF A MAN IS NOT DOING HIS JOB OF BEING A MAN. WHEN YOU BECOME A MAN,
YOU CAN DEMAND RESPECT AS SUCH!
A woman is not under a man, subject to a man, underneath a
man’s rule or authority. Not in God’s sight. If you are that man who provides
and protects his family, and honor his woman than you deserve to be treated as
such.
BUT!!!!!!
If you are not providing for her, you are not protector, if
she has to work to take care of herself, and she has t pay all the bills, don’t
get mad if she doesn’t want to cook dinner and clean the house, or pay your
bills you have accumulated if she holds her own.
YOU CAN EITHER EVEN THE BALANCE HELP WITH PROVIDING, AND GET
THE RESPECT DUE YOU AS A MAN. OR FALL BACK AND DON’T EXPECT THE RIGHTS AND
PRIVILAGES AS A MAN FROM YOUR WOMAN ON TOP OF HER TAKING CARE OF YOU
